waaaaaaa!
stupidest thing ever is the part when you are really inlove with someone who doesn't love you!!!
like for a kazillion years you've waited for him to make a move...dude!!!!!!!still nothing happens..whew!
that's tough!
so..the most effective advice is.....fall in love with the right person....ask for it......DON'T WAIT!!!!!!!!...that s-u-c-k-s!!!!